SMDH

(clearing my throat)
HERE YE' HERE YE'. Special Anouncement:

so i read some shit today that just pissed me off. somebody posted a pic of chris brown & his semi hard dick & all the girls who commented that shit were talking about how they now understood why Rihanna stayed with dude even though he was abusive.

let me just say. i dont give a flying fuck about that whole situation. i dont know those two & the situation doesnt really affect me like that on a personal level so that didnt bother me. what did bother me, however, was the comments that the girls were making. its like dude..do you realize how ignorant you're making yourself sound?
like fareal..& i found that shit insulting cuz i've been in an abusive relationship & it wasnt a joke. so to see them laughing at it & treating it like no big deal kinda struck a nerve. my situation wasnt like Rihannas cuz i didnt get hurt physically by dude but buddy did much damage to me emotionally & mentally.

i know somebodys gonna read this & think im overreacting & if you do thats your opinion & it doesnt change mine. plus id like to add im pretty sure outta the say 20 girls that left comments, at least 5% of em were being serious. after i read those comments tho it just had me feeling like it was females like them that contributed to some dudes treating us in a negative manner. if a dude reads that shit he'll probably end up thinking "as long as i provide something she cant get on her own & make it good, i can do whatever i please" & i for one am not having that. been there, done that. not again.

so basically to the ladies. tighten that shit up. stop allowing dudes to think its cool for them to do & say certain things. if you dont set standards for yourself, you're gonna end up with a basic bullshit nigga wondering how the fuck you got to there.