18.7.09

Not the smartest move..

Sooo I just found out that this girl i went to school with is engaged. At first im like "she's madd young but hey if they love each other..". Then i find out she & dude have only been together for like three months. WTF??

Im not a judgemntal person & im all for going after what you want but damn. 3 months??

Smdh. Nobody really wants to burst her bubble & im not buddy buddy with her so i sure as hell cant say shit. Im just saying, you cant possibly know that this is the person you wanna spend the rest of your life with after three months. Not happening. Especially when you're that young----she's like 18, i think..

At 18 we're still tryna figure out what makes us tick & just tryna have fun & exploring our options. Sure there are folks who tie the knot young but im pretty sure they've known each other for more than three months (four months anyone??..lol).

On some serious shit tho..Getting married while you're still finding out about the person is a dumb move cuz the chances of yall marriage succeeding gets pretty slim. Most of the time you dont want the same things you wanted at 18 when you're 28.

Think about it..At 18 do you still want the same shit you wanted at 8??

Best of luck to her tho--she's a dedicated mug so who knows? Plus, "to each their own" right?

Smdh.

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